Me and husband have been together for nearly 7 years. He has a female friend at work, they’ve only be friendly last 6 m...
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Me and husband have been together for nearly 7 years. He has a female friend at work, they’ve only be friendly last 6 months or so. All of a sudden he’s meeting her to go for a drink every week at a bar in town. We have been introduced and done a couple of things all three of us. She has a partner (new thing, only few weeks). So not serious yet, early dating stages.
This week she asked my husband to help build some furniture that she newly bought, as she lives round the corner. He said, yep no worries we would both go round and take drinks too. She said oh, if your wife comes (me) I’ll need to clean the house and I don’t have time to do housework. That to me sounded like shes close to husband so doesnt mind him seeing mess, but for me she would need to clean or b, a way to get rid of me, to stop me coming round. Long story short my husband didn’t end up going as I was uncomfortable with him spending his saturday night alone with her in her house and she didn’t “have time to clean”
Fast forward a few days - she’s texting to say she’s broken down, feeling emotionally down and regularly general life updates. I go to visit my family and come home to my husbands sprawled on the sofa, feet up, laughing and cracking jokes, on the phone to her “cos she was bored while driving”
Overall I just think this is a bit much. They’re seeing each other once a week ish for a drink, see each other everyday at work, texting occasionally and now she’s phoning him while driving.
Am I being unreasonable about this? Is this too much? I don’t know how to move forward from this but it’s infuriating me every time I hear her name. Grrrrr! Advice please
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